@MrWright4hire said in A LIFE AND FATHER'S ISSUES, NOT TECH:
@Obsolesce said in A LIFE AND FATHER'S ISSUES, NOT TECH:
The trickery was with willful intent, that much is easily clear from the wording and url shortening on a forum you can easily create a text link. Everyone knows its only done if there is something to hide.
Nothing wrong with asking for help and linking to funding help site, the issue is with the intentional deciet and lies, then defending it, and it also not really being the place for it IMO. Perhaps you would have much better luck on Facebook getting money and/or prayers.
Many of us are parents too, and feel for you, but wouldn't do what you did on here if in the same situation.
Obsolesce, you really should represent your name to the fullest. For the record, I asked if I could post on here before I posted. The shortening of the url isn't of my doing. It's what Go Fund provide you when they encourage you to share. I'm very transparent about my intentions, hence why I asked if I could post on here as well as share the content of what I was about to post before I posted it.
Nevertheless, the process that I took to post my story isn't as important as my story. However it's funny how you idiots, Yes I said idiots! Specifically the nay sayers and trouble makers. How you made the process more important than the my story. And how you added your own speculations as to me being trickery and trying to fool you guys is beyond absurd. That would be like taking a beat up Volts wagon on a race track trying to get some investors to sponsor me. No where did I state that I wanted anyone in my post to give money. All I asked was to bring some awareness.
You have now polluted my intentions to those who could possibly benefit from my story turn away from my story.
Thanks for nothing and increasing the stress that I'm already dealing with.
Perhaps next time, you can make your intentions clear in your intro so there is no confusion or potential misleading.
Something like you want to raise awareness of X issue and ask for monetary help to get through it personally and to aid in spreading awareness, then the link to read more and to donate if interested.
You say you feel you were transparent with your intentions, and had that been true, you would not have received all these reactions showing otherwise. How you worded it clearly had bad results and everyone clearly felt mislead. That is not our fault, and being called idiots and being told to die because of your mistakes is absolutely not warranted.
